Monday, August 29, 2011
Thursday, August 11, 2011
Thursday, July 14, 2011
Slow Dance
Have you ever watched kids
on a merry-go-round
Or listened to the rain
slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last
Do you run through each day
on the fly
When you ask "How are you?"
do you hear the reply?
When the day is done,
do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow
And in your haste,
not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
'Cause you never had time
to call and say "Hi"?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away...
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.
Have you ever watched kids
on a merry-go-round
Or listened to the rain
slapping on the ground?
Ever followed a butterfly's erratic flight
Or gazed at the sun into the fading night?
You better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last
Do you run through each day
on the fly
When you ask "How are you?"
do you hear the reply?
When the day is done,
do you lie in your bed
With the next hundred chores
running through your head?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last
Ever told your child,
We'll do it tomorrow
And in your haste,
not see his sorrow?
Ever lost touch,
Let a good friendship die
'Cause you never had time
to call and say "Hi"?
You'd better slow down
Don't dance so fast
Time is short
The music won't last
When you run so fast to get somewhere
You miss half the fun of getting there.
When you worry and hurry through your day,
It is like an unopened gift....
Thrown away...
Life is not a race.
Do take it slower
Hear the music
Before the song is over.
Thursday, July 7, 2011
Abuse
A few days ago, a friend and I had a discussion concerning abusive relationships. I felt this topic needed a little more clarification so here it is:
Signs of an abusive relationship
There are many signs of an abusive relationship. The most telling sign is fear of your partner. If you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around your partner—constantly watching what you say and do in order to avoid a blow-up—chances are your relationship is unhealthy and abusive. Other signs that you may be in an abusive relationship include a partner who belittles you or tries to control you, and feelings of self-loathing, helplessness, and desperation.
To determine whether your relationship is abusive, answer the questions below. The more “yes” answers, the more likely it is that you’re in an abusive relationship.
Your Inner Thoughts and Feelings
Do you:
feel afraid of your partner much of the time?
avoid certain topics out of fear of angering your partner?
feel that you can’t do anything right for your partner?
believe that you deserve to be hurt or mistreated?
wonder if you’re the one who is crazy?
feel emotionally numb or helpless?
Your Partner’s Belittling Behavior
Does your partner:
humiliate or yell at you?
criticize you and put you down?
treat you so badly that you’re embarrassed for your friends or family to see?
ignore or put down your opinions or accomplishments?
blame you for his own abusive behavior?
see you as property or a sex object, rather than as a person?
Your Partner’s Violent Behavior or Threats
Does your partner:
have a bad and unpredictable temper?
hurt you, or threaten to hurt or kill you?
threaten to take your children away or harm them?
threaten to commit suicide if you leave?
force you to have sex?
destroy your belongings?
Your Partner’s Controlling Behavior
Does your partner:
act excessively jealous and possessive?
control where you go or what you do?
keep you from seeing your friends or family?
limit your access to money, the phone, or the car?
constantly check up on you?
Signs of an abusive relationship
There are many signs of an abusive relationship. The most telling sign is fear of your partner. If you feel like you have to walk on eggshells around your partner—constantly watching what you say and do in order to avoid a blow-up—chances are your relationship is unhealthy and abusive. Other signs that you may be in an abusive relationship include a partner who belittles you or tries to control you, and feelings of self-loathing, helplessness, and desperation.
To determine whether your relationship is abusive, answer the questions below. The more “yes” answers, the more likely it is that you’re in an abusive relationship.
Your Inner Thoughts and Feelings
Do you:
feel afraid of your partner much of the time?
avoid certain topics out of fear of angering your partner?
feel that you can’t do anything right for your partner?
believe that you deserve to be hurt or mistreated?
wonder if you’re the one who is crazy?
feel emotionally numb or helpless?
Your Partner’s Belittling Behavior
Does your partner:
humiliate or yell at you?
criticize you and put you down?
treat you so badly that you’re embarrassed for your friends or family to see?
ignore or put down your opinions or accomplishments?
blame you for his own abusive behavior?
see you as property or a sex object, rather than as a person?
Your Partner’s Violent Behavior or Threats
Does your partner:
have a bad and unpredictable temper?
hurt you, or threaten to hurt or kill you?
threaten to take your children away or harm them?
threaten to commit suicide if you leave?
force you to have sex?
destroy your belongings?
Your Partner’s Controlling Behavior
Does your partner:
act excessively jealous and possessive?
control where you go or what you do?
keep you from seeing your friends or family?
limit your access to money, the phone, or the car?
constantly check up on you?
Monday, June 27, 2011
St Louis Gateway Arch and Cheeburger Cheeburger
We took a trip recently to St Louis. The main reason was to take Granny (his Mom) to eat at one of her favorite restaurants. We decided to go see the Gateway Arch while we were there. Papaw took the granddaughters all the way to the top, even though years ago he refused to go up with his teenage sons. They were old enough to go by themselves. He doesn't like heights. Isn't that awesome that he got his courage up to take his granddaughters. He took 1 picture and spent the rest of the time watching them enjoy the sights from the top of the arch. Way to go Papaw!! Granny loved her Cheeburger Cheeburger. Memories!!
Wednesday, June 22, 2011
Monday, June 6, 2011
Thursday, May 5, 2011
Sunday, May 1, 2011
Happy Birthday!!
I hope you have a wonderful birthday and that the day is as special as you are.
I love you!!
Wednesday, April 13, 2011
Look who is 5
Another year older, another year sweeter. Have a wonderful day. Happy Birthday!! I love you.
Friday, April 8, 2011
Birthday Girl
Today is Delia's birthday!!! She is growing up so fast. Have a wonderful birthday. I love you!
Wednesday, March 16, 2011
Tuesday, March 8, 2011
Monday, March 7, 2011
quote
Attitude is the mind's paintbrush. It can color anything.
Saw this on a friend's blog, had to pass it on.
Saw this on a friend's blog, had to pass it on.
Thursday, February 24, 2011
Life
Life is too short to wake up with regrets. So love
the people who treat you right. Forget about the
ones who don't. Believe everything happens for a
reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both
hands. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life
would be easy, they just promised it would be
worth it.
Friends are like balloons;
Once you let them go, you might not get them
back. Sometimes we get so busy with our own
lives and problems that we may not even notice
that we've let them fly away. Sometimes we are so
caught up in who's right and who's wrong that we
forget what's right and wrong. Sometimes we just
don't realize what real friendship means until it
is too late. I don't want to let that happen so
I'm going to tie you to my heart so I never lose
you.
the people who treat you right. Forget about the
ones who don't. Believe everything happens for a
reason. If you get a second chance, grab it with both
hands. If it changes your life, let it. Nobody said life
would be easy, they just promised it would be
worth it.
Friends are like balloons;
Once you let them go, you might not get them
back. Sometimes we get so busy with our own
lives and problems that we may not even notice
that we've let them fly away. Sometimes we are so
caught up in who's right and who's wrong that we
forget what's right and wrong. Sometimes we just
don't realize what real friendship means until it
is too late. I don't want to let that happen so
I'm going to tie you to my heart so I never lose
you.
Monday, January 31, 2011
Fear
Those of you that know me well, know I am afraid of deep water. Today I ventured out on the ice at Eagle Creek Reservoir. It took a lot of nerve to do it but once out there I was ok. One more item off my "bucket list". Yeah!!
Sunday, January 9, 2011
Wednesday, January 5, 2011
2010-2011
2010 was not the year of fun and adventure.
We remodeled our house and unfortunately hired contractors that were incompetent. It was a long process of getting it done and safe. We found mold, possible asbestos and electrical issues that had us amazed the house hadn’t caught fire. We had to follow behind the workers to make sure things were being done correctly and Don still had to redo things. I believe it was the closest Don and I ever came to leaving each other. There was not one thing that went easy and without problems.
Towards the end of the project, Don was let go from his job of almost 24 years. We endured 12 weeks of unemployment and tears before he found a position. The new job is different and has been a struggle to learn. Every day brings another round of stress trying to adjust to the change in our life.
We have had our share of health issues within the family. Thankfully the illnesses have been manageable. My prayer is that this year we will all find better health, and take good care of ourselves.
No one close to us died although we did have people we knew pass away and we have friends and family that are dealing with health issues.
The year wasn’t all bad, we were able to spend 2 weeks on Sanibel Island in May. It was a wonderful vacation and I am glad we went. We met some new friends and visited with some old friends while we were there. We walked the beach, picked up shells and took some awesome pictures. We ate well and relaxed and played.
We spent quality time with our kids and grandchildren. There were visits to the zoo, the parks, fishing, etc., all good times and special memories.
I recently read a blog article and she spoke of life being fragile and that peace is something that you have to have in yourself or it isn’t there when you need it the most. I do believe I have forgotten that fundamental aspect to life. Only I can make myself happy, I cannot depend on my family or my friends or any outside influences to put the joy in my life. I need to remember that time goes by quickly and that today will never come again. I need to say I love you more, and to treat those I love with kindness and respect.
2011 will hopefully be a good year, one of good times and laughter, one of little stress and lots of relaxation, one of spending time with those that mean the most to me.
I am leery of what 2011 will bring. I am hoping for good things but as of today it is not looking much different than 2010. The only change I see is on the calendar so today I am going to try to remember the things that are important to me and put a smile on my face because I truly am blessed.
We remodeled our house and unfortunately hired contractors that were incompetent. It was a long process of getting it done and safe. We found mold, possible asbestos and electrical issues that had us amazed the house hadn’t caught fire. We had to follow behind the workers to make sure things were being done correctly and Don still had to redo things. I believe it was the closest Don and I ever came to leaving each other. There was not one thing that went easy and without problems.
Towards the end of the project, Don was let go from his job of almost 24 years. We endured 12 weeks of unemployment and tears before he found a position. The new job is different and has been a struggle to learn. Every day brings another round of stress trying to adjust to the change in our life.
We have had our share of health issues within the family. Thankfully the illnesses have been manageable. My prayer is that this year we will all find better health, and take good care of ourselves.
No one close to us died although we did have people we knew pass away and we have friends and family that are dealing with health issues.
The year wasn’t all bad, we were able to spend 2 weeks on Sanibel Island in May. It was a wonderful vacation and I am glad we went. We met some new friends and visited with some old friends while we were there. We walked the beach, picked up shells and took some awesome pictures. We ate well and relaxed and played.
We spent quality time with our kids and grandchildren. There were visits to the zoo, the parks, fishing, etc., all good times and special memories.
I recently read a blog article and she spoke of life being fragile and that peace is something that you have to have in yourself or it isn’t there when you need it the most. I do believe I have forgotten that fundamental aspect to life. Only I can make myself happy, I cannot depend on my family or my friends or any outside influences to put the joy in my life. I need to remember that time goes by quickly and that today will never come again. I need to say I love you more, and to treat those I love with kindness and respect.
2011 will hopefully be a good year, one of good times and laughter, one of little stress and lots of relaxation, one of spending time with those that mean the most to me.
I am leery of what 2011 will bring. I am hoping for good things but as of today it is not looking much different than 2010. The only change I see is on the calendar so today I am going to try to remember the things that are important to me and put a smile on my face because I truly am blessed.
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